Today being the last day of 2024, I decided I’d write something looking back on the year. I’ve been wanting to do this sort of thing in past years, but 2024 was particularly interesting. I’m also planning to do a separate “looking ahead” for 2025, since I have a few goals and anxiety about the coming year.
Life
My life isn’t exciting. Since the pandemic, my wife and I haven’t really done any travelling, and we tend to stick to our routines. This year changed some things, though.
In April, we visited my brother and his wife in California. They wanted us to come out and said it’d be a good time to visit. Looking back, I should have known something was up with how hard my family was pushing for us to visit them. When we got out there, they gave us a short tour of their place and ended in the kitchen, where they had a peg board up with a bunch of sonogram photos. I imagine I had a weird, slack-jawed look on my face as my brain was processing it. I think I made some awkward jokes (as I do). But that’s how I found out they were pregnant. I’m just amazed my mom was able to keep it a secret.
The baby was born in September, and my parents went out to spend Christmas with them. Apparently my mom is planning to fly back out in February and essentially be a live-in nanny as their leave ends and they have to go back to work.
Personal Projects
I typically have some project I’m working on outside of work. I was working on a third-person roguelike mech shooter in Unity for a while, but when Unity changed its pricing policy back in 2023, I stopped work on that. (They walked back a lot of those changes, but it left a bad taste in my mouth.) This year, I started a new project in Godot, and while there’s been a bit of a learning curve (and I have a lot more to learn), I’m slowly getting the hang of things. It sucks that I don’t have all the tools I was using in Unity to work with (especially since I paid a lot for some of them expecting to get a lot out of them), but it’s nice to get back to some of the basics.
So since I’ve been enjoying “bullet heaven” shooters recently, I decided I’d try making one myself, with a few city-builder twists. Right now, the idea is that you gather resources and build a mobile space station that’s constantly under attack, and you have to balance a variety of resources (power generation, ammunition, heat, propulsion) while under attack. I have these pictures in my head of a battle station with guns firing in all directions at dozens of enemies. Not sure how it’s going to play out as I get things going. Right now, I’m just trying to get some of the basics working.
Work
Either late last year or early this year, the company I work for – American Auto Shield (AAS) – was acquired by CarShield, the auto warranty company with all the ads. There was always a relationship between the two companies: AAS basically “creates” the warranty plans and CarShield would sell them. The acquisition has been pretty rough.
In March, AAS decided to pause 401K contributions until the end of the year to make the books look better for the new owner, since the spring-summer driving season leads to a lot of warranty claims. Around the same time, we were required to clock in and out, which just seemed ridiculous for salaried employees. I saw it as disrespectful. This peeved me at the time and I started passively looking for a new job.
Then last month (November), the new employee handbook comes out with a bunch of new changes. My PTO time was cut from 22 days each year to 12. It no longer accrues, but is given out on your work anniversary, which for me is the end of July, so I’ll have basically no PTO time until then (since I spent most of it for the holidays). They’re also cutting the 401K match by 1%, which is basically just a pay cut.
So now I’m actively looking for a new job. I’m trying to be a little picky, but the software development landscape has changed a lot since the last time I was looking. I don’t want to work for a “big” company – Microsoft, Amazon, Google, etc. – and they seem to be hiring the most. Not sure where I’ll end up, but one of my goals for next year is to make a move.
Politics
The source of most of my anxiety right now is around politics. To say I was disappointed by the election results this year is an understatement. I know Harris wasn’t a lot of people’s “favorite” candidate, but it seemed like it’d be an easy win; sure, Harris wasn’t as vociferous about certain issues as I’d like, but she was still a better option given the opposition. That Trump won the popular vote just astounds me.
I won’t speculate as to why things went the way they did (there are plenty of different reasons and I’ve read plenty of opinions), but all the bullshit Trump touted during the campaign has me anxious about how bad things are going to get over the next few years: tariffs and the usual deregulation nonsense are probably the biggest ones, but there’s also the Project 2025 stuff. Republicans getting control of all three branches has me incredibly worried about where the country is headed.
As pleased as I am to see the “can I change my vote” posts floating around social media, it doesn’t really change anything. The damage that’s coming over the next four years will take decades to undo, if ever. I’m frustrated that people don’t understand American politics well enough for the country to get any better. I’ve basically given up hope at this point when it comes to politics. I’ll still vote, I’ll still anxiously watch results, but I have no faith that anything will improve.
Looking Ahead
I hate to end on a sour note, but that’s how 2024 has ultimately felt: like the situation around the world is bad and steadily getting worse. I’m fortunate enough that things are good within my bubble, and I’m certainly thankful for that. I think I’m going to have to insulate myself a bit over the next few years just to survive without going insane. I still hope that things don’t end up as bad as I fear, but that’s only because it seems like the only option I have. I’m just not getting my hopes up very high.







































Rolling a “coal” meant you lost your turn.
The tree was divided into three sections using gold ribbon. If you rolled “stocking”, you got to take one stocking from your section of the tree. The stockings had gifts like gift cards or lottery tickets (something my parents did to fill out the stockings – lottery tickets are an unusual gift for us).
Each player had a deck of cards, and rolling “card” meant you got to draw one.

“Give A Gift” Cards
“Christmas Hug” Cards
